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9 years of Parasha articles. 

ENGLISH YITRO

By Yosef Farhi | Jan 29, 2013

 AN ELECTRIFYING THOUGHT Motivation is an interesting thing. It is the secret of all success and one of those things that everyone wants, but money can’t buy. Someone once asked me to coach him on being motivated. I did not know how to coach someone for motivation. I asked my mentor, and he suggested that…

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SPANISH – YITRO

By Yosef Farhi | Jan 29, 2013

 Una idea electrizante La motivación es algo muy interesante; es el secreto de todo éxito, algo que todos anhelan pero no se compra con dinero. Una vez alguien me pidió que lo orientara y ayudara a tener motivación. Yo no sabía cómo hacerlo, y por eso acudí a la ayuda de mi mentor en “coaching”.…

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ENGLISH BESHALACH 2013

By Yosef Farhi | Jan 22, 2013

HIDE AND GO SEEK Things get interesting when you ask questions. Someone I learn with asked me if we could learn together about Emunah and Bitachon (Faith and Trust in G-d). To get a better idea of which sefer would be right for the job , I asked  him what he wants to get out…

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spanish beshalach

By Yosef Farhi | Jan 22, 2013

Jugando a las escondidas A veces las cosas se tornan más interesantes cuando uno formula preguntas. Una persona con quien suelo estudiar, me pidió si era posible que estudiáramos acerca de Emuná y Bitajón (Fé y Confianza en Di-s). A fin de orientarme un poco acerca de la clase de libro que sería apta para…

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ENGLISH BO 2013

By Yosef Farhi | Jan 15, 2013

  YOU MAY NOT KNOW There is a joke that the kids say here in Israel.- Father and son were going on a long walk together. The son asked his father, “Dad, why does fire rise upward ?”  His father answered, “I do not know, dear son.” A couple of minutes later, the son asked his…

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SPANISH BO 2013

By Yosef Farhi | Jan 15, 2013

Lección de una anciana egipcia La capacidad de la mente humana de creer en lo que quiere, aun en contra de cualquier probabilidad, es asombrosa. El Midrash Hagadol relata el episodio siguiente: Cuando Moshé profetizó acerca de la muerte de los primogénitos, mencionó que habría un gran clamor en toda la tierra de Egipto, como…

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english VAERA 2013

By Yosef Farhi | Jan 8, 2013

LESSON FROM A FROG Anyone who gets angry is considered as one who practices idolatry. (Shabbat 105b) Why is it like that?  The last time I got angry, I did not feel that I do not believe in G-d. Such a thought did not even cross my mind. As a matter of fact, when people…

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spanish VAERA 2013

By Yosef Farhi | Jan 8, 2013

 Recuerdos de gratitud Moshé se mostró renuente a aceptar el puesto de redentor de los judíos de Egipto, justificando su oposición con el pretexto de “no ser un hombre de palabras y de poseer una boca y lengua pesadas (una forma de hablar poco clara)“. Moshé se refería al tartamudeo que había sufrido al quemarse…

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english – shemot 2012

By Yosef Farhi | Jan 1, 2013

“WANNABES” When R’ Chaim Shmulevitz was eulogizing the Brisker Rav, he just cried as he was unable to speak, choked for words.  He said that telling the stories of a person’s deeds is the way that people usually give an idea of who that person was. But when we’re talking about the Rav, stories of…

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shemot – spanish

By Yosef Farhi | Jan 1, 2013

 Rezar histéricamente  El Talmud en el Tratado de Berajot (24b) declara: quien levanta la voz al rezar es considerado carente de fe en Di-s. Rashí expone un motivo muy simple para esta declaración: Si Di-s se encuentra en todas partes, ¿para qué esta persona necesita levantar la voz? ¿Acaso Di-s no escucha también sus susurros?…

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english – VAYECHI

By Yosef Farhi | Dec 26, 2012

RUNNING LIKE WATER The  other day, I found a book with sayings from the Rebbe of Kotzk at a street book sale. He was known for his quotes, for the way he would make his point sharper than the point of a needle. When the idea sinks in, a person can only say , “Ouch!,…

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spanish – Vaieji 2012

By Yosef Farhi | Dec 26, 2012

 Correr como el agua Encontré cierta vez un libro con dichos del Rebe de Kotzk, conocidos por su agudeza y exactitud para definir cualquier punto. Mayormente, cuando uno por fin “cae” y los entiende, dice: “¡Guau, cómo no me di cuenta de ello!”. Hojeándolo, encontré un dicho que no me llamó tanto la atención, porque…

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english VAYIGASH 2012

By Yosef Farhi | Dec 18, 2012

HOW ABOUT NOW We find something in this week’s parasha that blows my mind every time I think about it. והנה עיניכם ראות ועיני אחי בנימין כי פי המדבר אליכם  . Rashi tells us here, in accordance with the Talmud in Meggilah 16,   Yosef told his brothers – just as I do not have anything…

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spanish VAYIGASH

By Yosef Farhi | Dec 18, 2012

¿Y ahora? En la Parashá de esta semana hay un versículo que me deja pasmado cada vez que lo leo: והנה עיניכם רואות ועיני אחי בנימין כי פי המדבר אליכם. Rashí comenta en base al Talmud en Meguilá 16, que Iosef le dijo a sus hermanos que así como no guardaba rencor por su hermano…

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miketz 2012

By Yosef Farhi | Dec 11, 2012

THE MAN IN THE WINDOW   Six years back, I was walking out of the Argentinian Shabbat minyan in Bayit Vegan,Jerusalem, after the morning prayers, when I heard my name called out in a strong Spanish accent. I turned around to see someone running after me, someone whom I had never made acquaintance. I kept…

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english VAYESHEV

By Yosef Farhi | Dec 4, 2012

SUCCESSFUL DEAD   I know that this title will catch people’s attention. But that is not why I chose it. I chose it because there are many ways that people understand what success is .When everyone in the shul says in Hallel, אנא ה’ הושיעה נא , אנא ה’ הצליחה נא “Please, G-d, give us…

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spanish VAYESHEV

By Yosef Farhi | Dec 4, 2012

Vivir el presente En algún momento de nuestras vidas, todos sentimos desesperación o pena propia por alguna situación que estamos atravesando. Nos imaginamos que, de haber disfrutado de la posición de tal y tal o de haber tenido su suerte, hubiéramos prosperado y vivido felices. Pensamientos como estos pueden atravesar por la mente de jóvenes,…

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english VAYISHLACH 2012

By Yosef Farhi | Nov 28, 2012

   SELF HELP AND TORAH   A cup can that is filled half way can be looked at as either half full or half empty.   The difference is perspective. From which way are you looking at the cup, from the bottom to the top or from the top to the bottom? We can look at many…

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spanish VAYISHLACH 2012

By Yosef Farhi | Nov 28, 2012

  Autoayuda y Torá   Una taza llena hasta la mitad puede ser vista como medio llena o medio vacía. Todo depende del punto de vista; desde qué perspectiva observamos la taza, de arriba hacia abajo o de abajo hacia arriba. Muchas cosas en la vida pueden ser vistas en forma positiva o negativa. Aun así,…

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englsih vayetze

By Yosef Farhi | Nov 20, 2012

DEEP INSIDE KEVER RACHEL   According to one view in the Midrash, Rachel passed away before Leah because she offered an answer ahead of her older sister at a crucial moment in their lives (Bereishit Rabba 74). When Yaakov asked his wives, Rachel and Leah, for permission to leave the home of their father and…

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spanish vayetze

By Yosef Farhi | Nov 20, 2012

Amor verdadero El pasuk que trata acerca del amor de Iacov por Rajel, puede dejarnos un tanto perplejos; pues al describir los siete años que Iacov debió esperar para casarse con Rajel, la Torá nos cuenta que “fueron para él como poco días, debido a su amor hacia ella” (Bereshit 29:20). ¿Acaso no es al…

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english toldot 2012

By Yosef Farhi | Nov 13, 2012

SEEING THROUGH THE SKIES   And it was when Yitzchak became advanced in age and his eyes dimmed from seeing… (27:1). Rashi explains why Yitzchak had lost his eyesight: when Yitzchak was on the altar and his father was about to slaughter him, the Heavens opened up, the Angels were crying and their tears fell…

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spanish toldot 2012

By Yosef Farhi | Nov 13, 2012

   Ver a través de los Cielos   “Y fue cuando Itzjak envejeció y se debilitaron sus ojos…” (27:1). Rashí explica los sucesos que llevaron la pérdida de la visión de Itzjak: al encontrarse sobre el altar, a punto de ser sacrificado por su padre Abraham, se abrieron los Cielos y las lágrimas de los ángeles…

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english chaye sara 2012

By Yosef Farhi | Nov 7, 2012

 YISHMAEL THE BAAL TESHUVA   I was coaching a very serious yeshiva boy who was feeling horrible about himself. He said that he had done some type of sin, and that he could never repent. Repentance to him meant to regret the past so much that he could uproot the past. He felt that there…

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spanish – chaye sara

By Yosef Farhi | Nov 7, 2012

  Ishmael el Baal Teshuvá    Cierta vez me tocó acompañar a un joven estudiante de Ieshivá, quien se sentía muy mal consigo mismo. Él declaraba haber cometido un cierto pecado, sobre el cual jamás podría arrepentirse; pues para él el arrepentimiento consistía en lamentar el pasado en forma tal que lograse desarraigar lo realizado. Él…

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english vayera 2012

By Yosef Farhi | Oct 30, 2012

  THE GREATEST TEST FOR MANKIND A few years back, there was a small minyan that gathered in a room adjacent to the house of one of the neighbors. The intimate group in its cozy quarters used to invite a diverse choice of speakers between Mincha and Arvit Friday Night. One fellow shared the following idea,…

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spanish vayera 2012

By Yosef Farhi | Oct 30, 2012

La prueba más difícil para un ser humano Hace algunos años atrás, solía reunirse un minián para rezar en una habitación contigua al departamento de uno de mis vecinos. Todos los viernes por la noche, solían invitar a un orador para disertar frente a la pequeña congregación entre Minjá y Arvit. Siete años atrás uno…

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lech lecha

By Yosef Farhi | Oct 24, 2012

          HOW RELIGIOUS IS SHE?   My rabbi once told me an interesting thought that has a lot to do with our Parasha. It used to be, when he was called by someone inquiring about a girl that learnt in his classes for a shidduch, the voice on the line would ask, “How…

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spanish Lech Lecha

By Yosef Farhi | Oct 23, 2012

La lección de Abraham en su defensa del Judaísmo Un buen “político” sabe cómo tratar situaciones comprometedoras. No todos poseemos aquella destreza y, de hecho, quizás ellos mismos ni siquiera sean conscientes de su conducta natural. Me gustaría analizar una técnica comúnmente utilizada por estas “personalidades políticas”, proponiendo su uso para todos nosotros en ciertas…

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ENGLISH NOACH

By Yosef Farhi | Oct 17, 2012

      THE DECISIONS WE MAKE About five years ago, sitting in the park near my house in Bayit Vegan watching my kids, I noticed that the fellow sitting on the bench next to me was speaking to his kid in English. This is uncommon in Bayit Vegan. The majority of younger families here are either…

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spanish Noach

By Yosef Farhi | Oct 17, 2012

 Mensaje de una paloma Tras cuarenta días de lluvias, Nóaj envió a un cuervo y luego a una paloma  para verificar si las aguas del diluvio habían subsistido. La paloma regresó a Nóaj con una ramita del olivo en el pico. El Talmud (Eruvín 18b) explica que con esto la paloma quería transmitirle a Nóaj…

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breishit

By Yosef Farhi | Oct 10, 2012

    I VERSES ME The nature of people is that there are a couple of voices inside us, a few different emotions. When we decide the way we feel or how we would like to think, this means that we just chose one of the many things going on inside us that we prefer to…

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HAAZINU

By Yosef Farhi | Sep 27, 2012

     WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT YOUR PARENTS LOVE YOU? Have you ever noticed how many people today just do not “feel loved”? I always wondered as to exactly why humanity feels this way. A feeling that was never felt before to this degree. The Chida in Rosh David writes a beautiful explanation on the…

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VAYELECH 2012

By Yosef Farhi | Sep 20, 2012

      A REFUND ON TIME The days in which we presently find ourselves are days in which we all look for merits. However, R. Y. T. Salant, in B’er Yosef, helps us understand something about this from the famous story of R Preida.  (Eiruvin 54b) The Talmud begins with the passuk in our Parasha:ועתה כתבו…

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NITZAVIM 2012

By Yosef Farhi | Sep 13, 2012

     WRONG SIDE OF THE BED As Chaikel, the water carrier, was going about his daily chores, he was stopped by the Baal Shem Tov. “How are you doing?” the tzaddik asked. “Rabbi, what do you want me to say,” Chaikel groaned. “Life is so difficult and bitter. Every single day, I’ve got to walk…

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