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I love reading Rabbi Yosef Farhi’s columns, which are so full of wisdom and practical advice. He is a truly caring person, who is devoted to helping people grow and develop their spiritual potential.

- Dr. Miriam Adahan, psychologist and author

I have been reading your Parsha-sheet for 7 years. Its ideas are deep, original, inspiring yet surprisingly simple and well sourced.

- T S

Thanks to you Rabbi Farhi, seeing as I never have time to keep up with the weekly Torah Portion, now I feel like you’ve been guiding us every week to hear the unique messages Hashem is communicating through the Parshat Shavuah.  These "Torat chaim" life principles make the Torah and our connection to Hashem come alive.  I so appreciate this learning and look forward to continuing after the holidays.

- Devorah Yaffar Singer

The effective learning course is not just a course that if you have understood it, good for you, and if not you wasted some money. Rabbi Farhi makes sure that each person signing up for the course benefits from the tools taught and is able to use them.

-M. S. Spitzer

I would like to grade the "thinking about me" weekly newsletter. I give it a 4 p's. I find that it delivers Profound jewish Perceptions. Its style is of understanding and using the common person's Psychology "midot" and way of thinking, and most important, it leads us with Practical ways of applying those most important concepts into our lives.  i wish rabbi yosef much hatzlacha in bringing people closer to hashem by guiding them to be better people.  
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 - Avraham Goldstein, Mohel in Jerusalem

I've been a regular reader of Rabbi Farhi's weekly Divrei Torah, since he began publishing them. In particular I enjoy how he brings the Jewish angle to universal philosophical, psychological, and practical issues. Very rewarding reading.

- Raphael Zeevi, New York

Rabbi Farhi helped me clarify what I wanted to work on and gave simple and use full tips on how to reach my goal. B"H i have started using his advise and seen much improvement.
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Thank you Rabbi Farhi, for the very real, relatable, heartfelt, and inspiring divrei Torah. I learned a lot from the shofar shiur you gave last week. Toda raba! 
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Dear Rabbi, I just want to say how much i have been inspired by your weekly torah email thinking of me. It strikes a note with me each time i read it.I look forward to receiving it each week . you should be matzliach with your new web site. Keep writing these amazing weekly parsha sheets.

- Aryeh leib Cass Bayit Vegan Jerusalem

Thanks so much for your amazing advice and techniques! The wisdom you share is practical, sensitive, insightful and can be used to help people properly set and achieve their goals in all aspects of life.
 

- Moshe B. Monsey NY

It is a shame that you do not print out Bein Hazmanim your Parshe Sheets because they really boost me up. Seriously.

- David F, Israel

I used to hate reading. After the course, I learned how to love reading and learning. Now, that i jumped to speeds of 900 words a minute, I find all different tools for life in the books that I read. Books that I would never have gotten to, if not for Rabbi Farhi's skills of Effective Reading.

- Avigdor, Brooklyn

Hello Rabbi Farhi, My husband and I wait every week to read your weekly dvar torah. We would like to receive them by email if possible. Thank you

- Anonymous, Israel

אבא שלי, אמריקאי מבני ברק בן 88 עד מאה ועשרים אוהב מאד מאד את פרשת השבוע של הרב פרחי. הוא מבקש ממני בכל יום חמישי אחהצ שאדפיס לו את מה שכתב הרב על הפרשה. בשבועות שאין זה ממש ממש חסר לו. הוא אוהב את השקפת עולמו ואת הפסיכולוגיה שמאחורי המילים.
יישר כוח על האתר.

- Anonymous, Israel

Hi rabbi! I am a former student in yeshiva Lev Aharon and I want to thank you for your weekly Dvar Torah that you send out every week, I enjoy it very much! Every week I print it out and even make a few copies to spread it around my shul so not only I can read this amazing Dvar Torah, but so can other people!

- David, NY

Unbelievable! Awesome! Mamesh the highest!

- Anonymous

Thank you I really enjoy how you integrate your coaching knowledge with the Parsha. I fwd it on to many.

- C S, Ramot

Rav Farhi Hi, i am writing to you beacause i love the Dvar Toires that you write every week. Would you be able to send me all the Dvar Toires of this year. Best regards

- E M, Mexico

Shalom my name is Mendy and I was wondering/hoping you'd be able to continue sending the weekly vort its has helped me tremendously in the past and I'd appreciate it greatly if this would be possible. thank you so much. Shabbat Shalom

- Mendy F

Your weekly “ThinkingaboutMe” are uniformly excellent, and are helping many people. Keep up the very good work. Yeyasher kochachem, v’chazak ubaruch.

-E F, Jerusalem

greetings rabbi farhi. a big yasher koach for your very interesting weekly - it is much appreciated by many, is amusing, educational and always brings out a very good point. wishing you continued hatzlacha to inspire klal yisroel!

- A T, Jerusalem

Hi rabbi! I am a former student in yeshiva Lev Aharon and I want to thank you for your weekly Dvar Torah that you send out every week, I enjoy it very much! Every week I print it out and even make a few copies to spread it around my shul so not only I can read this amazing Dvar Torah, but so can other people!

- David, NY

Lechavod Rabbi Farhi, I did receive your video and I also think it is very true!!!! It put pieces together and made a lot of sense!!! Thank you very much!!! And will defiantly pass on!!!

- B G, Jerusalem

Hi, Can you send me your parsha. It’s really good. You must put a lot of work into it. Can you also send me a copy of last week’s.

- Y, Neveh Yaakov

I love your ideas. Wishing you great sucess. Please continue to distribute your flyers in the synagogs too. Thay give me extra desire to come and read them between and after prayers. All the best!

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Click korah 2018 to download CHASING SPARKS Parashat Korah One of the greatest challenges for the spiritual Jew is that after we get inspired, we try to live according to our inspiration for a day or two, but then nothing changes. When bringing up children, when inspiring our students, we face the same dilemma. We get them…

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Click shelach 2018 to download THE MITZVAH TO BE YOURSELF Parashat Shelach At least twice a day, we recite the words  וְלֹֽא־תָת֜וּרוּ אַחֲרֵ֤י לְבַבְכֶם֙ וְאַחֲרֵ֣י עֵֽינֵיכֶ֔ם אֲשֶׁר־אַתֶּ֥ם זֹנִ֖ים אַחֲרֵיהֶֽם. And you shall not wander after your hearts and after your eyes, that you are straying after them. The Netziv brings to our attention a deeper meaning of…

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Every crisis in life boils down to an identity crisis.

- Rabbi Yosef Farhi

Figure yourself out first and then your life will figure itself out.

- Rabbi Yosef Farhi

People who find serenity found it inside themselves. 

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Every unhealthy relationship or situation has an expiration date.

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חרטה , Regret, is not about feeling bad about the terrible things you’ve done. חרטה , Regret, is realizing how great you could have been.

-Rabbi Yosef Farhi

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