80/ 20

80/ 20 Parashat Bamidbar  The book  of Bamidbar is referred to as the Book of Numbers, because that is how it begins: taking the census of the Jewish people in the desert from the age 20 and up, the age from which males were eligible for the army. Each tribe was counted separately –  from…

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TIGHTROPING BETWEEN HUMBLENESS AND HAUGHTINESS

TIGHTROPING BETWEEN HUMBLENESS AND HAUGHTINESS Parashat Behukotay   In Pirkei Avot, we are taught to be very, very humble (4, 4). Generally speaking, the golden rule that our Sages suggest is in the middle of two extremes. Not too flamboyant and not too sparing. Not too courageous and not too cowardly. (Rambam Deot 1; 4)…

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AN AWESOME THOUGHT

AN AWESOME THOUGHT Parashat Behar  R’ Akiva   would say, Beloved is Man, for he is created in the Image of G-d.(Avot Ch. 3) What does this mean? G-d is infinite. Immortal. Immeasurable. The First and the Last. Was, Is and Will Be. He is in the Past, Present and Future, simultaneously. He is not limited…

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THE GOSSIP EXTINGUISHER

THE GOSSIP EXTINGUISHER Parashat Metzorah Usually, people gossip, not because they want to cause harm to other people , but because they need a topic of conversation. Nothing is juicier than gossip. Listening to gossip has the same severity as engaging in it. People often listen because they do not know how to stop the…

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+ or –

+ or – Parashat Vayikra Probably  the hardest part of coaching is getting started. How do you begin the conversation with the person you are coaching so that they will open up? Sometimes, a person knows what he wants, so he is much easier to coach. But, more often than not, people don’t know. They…

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