The successful Shadchan, the successful comedian, the successful writer, the successful entrepreneur, all use the same successful tool. They start out doing something unsuccessful, and they work it until they make it successful.
Be Do Have is an extremely powerful awareness model. It helps us realize how the crises we have in life, of what we should be doing, always boils down to identity crisis.
Fear Of Missing Out is a more powerful impulse than you think. A fear is an emotion that works faster than you intellect, and without even contemplating clearly whether or not you are really losing out by not being someone else, you are already trying to be someone else.